For example, here is one thing I adore about Sascha that I know I mentioned to that reporter: We do lots of silly things together without feeling awkward or self conscious, for example, when we are in a crabby mood and we do the crabby dance. The crabby dance consists of sidling back and forth making little grumbly noises and snapping at each other with our hands.

Where could I find another guy to do the crabby dance with?

Also, he loves cats even though they make him allergic, and he has excellent taste in pop-culture, ie. introducing me to T.A.t.u. and Buffy. And he goes to the gym and eats his vegetables even though he doesn't want to. And he makes me not smoke.